I hate when parents use the whole “I pay for your food and clothes and everything else!” Excuse to make their kids feel guilty. Its like, oh, yes, sorry you decided to have a child and actually have to care for that child. What a horrible thing for a small human to need those things and for the birthgiver to care for them. Poor you.
my entire childhood ::sigh :: the guilt tripping access of narcissism/abusive emotional patterns that comes from parents onto their children is extremely toxic. i feel bad that people have to subject to this in the household but it’s not right or okay to do this to YOUR children.
